qotd

"Look and listen for the welfare of the whole people and 
have always in view not only the present but also the coming 
generations, even those whose faces are yet beneath the surface 
of the ground -- the unborn of the future Nation."

The Constitution of the Iroquois Nations

qotd

“To know what life is worth you have to risk it once in a while.” -- Jean-Paul Sartre

Regrets of the Dying

A few years ago, someone posted a story about Bronnie Ware's blog post entitled "Regrets of the Dying" on my Facebook feed.  Here are the top 5 regrets she encountered while caring for the dying:

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

 #3 has never been a problem for me,  #1 I thought I had whipped, but when you really sit down and think about what you are doing and why...well it might not be as true as you thought.  At least that was the case for me.  #4 is a toss up, since if I have let people slide from my life it is probably for good reason.  #2 is the one I really needed to work on, but not in the traditional sense.   The context here is for your typical male worker of a generation that preceded the Internet.  Someone who was away from home and family.  I by comparison don't think working hard has to be bad, if you can do something that is fulfilling and especially if you can do it with your spouse.

And that leaves #5.  That has been the hardest.  It's not that I am unhappy, it is more that I don't seek happiness but rather fulfillment.   Sometimes I will #2 and not take the time to #5.  I'm working on it.

http://www.inspirationandchai.com/Regrets-of-the-Dying.html



Further reading:

The Helpful Guide to Living an Intentional Life

There's More to Life Than Being Happy

Fantasy Senator League

So what if we could generate the same kind of enthusiasm for our politician's performance as we do for NFL players? Well, OK I'm not that much of an idealist, but it would be nice if we had a site with a pleasant UI, decent infographics, etc. that didn't look like a bunch of PolySci majors designed it. There are plenty of watchdog groups with sites, but most are specific to a cause and are reminiscent of 1995 design astetics. A couple decent organizations with poor websites:

http://www.factcheck.org/
http://www.citizen.org/

Pogo (Project on Government Oversight) is more modern, but too cluttered with 'sign up' 'like us' and 'donate' distractions.

http://www.pogo.org/

The most promising is Tampa Bay Times' Politfact. 

But it still is a hot mess and could use some serious UI/UE work.   In their defense they are fair and have been steadily evolving, and most importantly are trusted.  They are the Snopes of the political world in my opinion.